humilliation continued

So Jenny and I began trying to work things out. We moved 800 miles away and stared over. It began with both of us pledging to change. We would talk more and try not to have secrets. I soon learned that Jenny had been molested as a child by many people. Also that her first boyfriend had used her as a sex slave. He tortured her with long sessions of anal sex,made worse by the fact that his manhood was in her words "much larger than mine." Also he would stuff her vagina with ice cubes then force himself inside her. Not least he had unbelievable stamina and would do her until she was dry and sore and then continue until she was in tears. She did also recount that she had her first ever orgasm with him and when he was genital he was not a good but a great lover.Jenny also admitted that some of the sex she had with him was nothing less than phenomenal and never equalled by any other man she had had.
As we began to talk more with each other she confided that of the three long term relationships she had before me, all three men where at least 9" or longer. She knew the smallest of the three was a little over 9" because he had her measure it, but she said one other was about the same length but thicker and the third was noticably longer and thicker yet. She told me this in the same conversation that she admitted that "the bigger ones feel better". As one of the things she wanted me to try and work on she asked that I try to last longer durring sex. This followed an admission that I was by far the quickest to cum of any man she had ever done.
Since this time Jenny has allowed me into her vagina 3, 4 ,somtimes 5 times a week,and our sex life has been much better. I have found that I will never be able to get her off with my penis,but she seems ok with me getting her off before the intercourse useing my mouth or fingres. I still have a very hard time with getting off very quickly. Some nights its still less than a minute, but somtimes I have gone 15-20 min. I have gone much longer,but I have to start and stop alot and pull my dick out of her for a few sec then put it back in.However starting and stopping really ruins it for her.
In turn she has accepted me watching porn. She knows that I fantasize about other men especialy black men fucking her. She will occationally watch porn with me. She has not only started giving me blow jobs,but she lets me get off in her mouth once in a while. Mabey every other month or so she will ask if id like to do her ass. So needless to say I am pretty happy with the sex I am getting. However,when you know somebody as long and as well as we know each other, some times I can just tell she would like me to give her a little more than I am able to.
It seems like I always blow my load right when she wants me to go faster and harder. We have tried alot of tecniques but I 90% of the time after 1or2 min im gona cum. Even if I ware 2 rubbers. More next post....